In the early days with my current nanny family, it would not be surprising to find me talking out loud, seemingly to myself. The thirteen-month-old had no ability to participate in conversation with me beyond giving me eye contact, pointing, and a few babbles. Often, during her lunchtime in the kitchen, while she sat at my feet with her toys, our conversations sounded like this…

“Right now I’m cracking an egg. Next, I’ll pour some milk and sprinkle a little salt into the bowl”.

Blank stare towards me

“I’m also going to rip up some spinach and add that. I assume this is okay with you?”.

Chews on her toy while giving me eye contact

“I really like cheddar cheese in my omelettes. Do you want to try cheddar cheese in your omelette?”.

“Bah bah buh bah!”.

Or almost every day outside in the stroller, crouched down to her eye level…

“Let’s turn right on Rangely Road. I know we both really like to look at the foliage on this street”.

Sips milk from her bottle

“This weekend, my brothers and I are going for a nature walk to check out the foliage. I feel really excited, I love spending time with my brothers. What are you doing this weekend?”.

Grabs my nose with both of her hands and babbles

Had there been a nanny cam on me in these moments, I fear for what my mom boss and dad boss may have thought about me talking out loud to myself and their baby, who cannot answer me with words. However, every single conversation was not only reciprocal but an intentional choice. Each and every choice I make when interacting with babies and toddlers, that would seem small, inconsequential, or even a little crazy to most, is actually a choice backed by scientific research. In this ____blog, we’ll explore the importance of conversational speech with babies and how it can influence their cognitive, social, and emotional development.  

Motherese

Emergent Literacy Skills & Brain Development

Social Emotional Development

In Conclusion

References

Motherese

Motherese refers to the high-pitched, exaggerated, sing-songy way of speaking, used by adults to babies and toddlers. “Motherese”...totally modern and unoffensive, right? Recently, the literature has amended this language and adopted “parentese” and “infant-directed speech”, or IDS. For a long time, I, along with most child development professionals, found IDS to be a highly disrespectful and demeaning way of speaking to anyone. At around twenty weeks of gestation, babies develop hearing strong enough to hear what is going on outside of the womb. This means that for approximately twenty weeks after that, your baby is listening to you and the people around you, talk. Then, they’re born into this new, unfamiliar world and people are suddenly speaking to them in strange, squeaky voices they don’t recognize. I found it completely affronting.

is changing my mind. Using parentese activates the parts of your baby’s brain that recognize words. It helps retain their attention when exposing them to language, and according to HeadStart, “the variations in pitch and the slower pace help children learn to identify the sounds, words, and rhythms of language.” Parentese is very important for enhancing the sound of our voices to engage babies and give them a reason to want to participate in conversational turn-taking with us. This conversational turn-taking leads to higher outcomes in language development, reading skills, social awareness, and success in school. The is to always use full sentences and real words.  

Emergent Literacy Skills & Brain Development

Conversational turn-taking in infancy can directly result in higher success rates in emergent reading skills, language development, IQ scores, and executive functioning in typically developing children. It is even more predictive than the quantity of words used with your baby. In their study using MRI imaging and standardized reading tests, LENA (Language Environment Analysis) found that, “...children who were talked with more frequently at home had more gray matter in the surface area of the left perisylvian cortex, an area of the brain associated with language production and comprehension…while adult words and conversational turns both affected brain growth, the effect size was 15 percent higher for conversational turns, confirming that quality is more important than quantity when talking with children”. This brain growth directly supports reading skills.

Social Emotional Development

There are many ways you can use conversational turn-taking to support your baby’s social and emotional development. Mainly, simply comment on what they or you are doing, thinking, or looking at, and name the emotions th—at might come with those experiences. For example, “You wanted the cookie and I said no. I see that makes you feel frustrated”, or “I noticed that you offered your toy to your friend. That made them feel happy”. This strategy helps children identify and understand emotions, which can lead to higher rates of emotional regulation skills in the future. Chilean researchers Estaban Gómez Muzzio and Katherine Strasser found that, “...emotional regulation, attachment, and emotional communication at 30 months of age were all significantly predicted by conversational turns at 18 months of age…determining that babies’ language environments predict their social and emotional skills one year later”. When Muzzio and Strasser continued their data collection they found, “Conversational turns at 30 months of age were shown to predict social-emotional competencies at 77 months of age, for socioemotional cognition, emotion regulation, and emotional communication”.

With all this being said, what counts as conversational turn-taking at the varying stages of development? From babies, coos, babbles, and even eye contact would count. Also considered are mispronounced word attempts from toddlers, communicative noises, and partial or full sentences from preschoolers. Getting down to their eye level is also quite important so that your baby or toddler can see your mouth movements and your facial expressions when you speak.

In Conclusion

Ultimately, the small, everyday moments of talking with babies, whether narrating your cooking, chatting during stroller rides, or responding to a babbled “bah bah buh”, are powerful acts of shaping a child’s developing mind. Parentese and intentional conversational turn-taking don’t just create connection; they actively build the neural and linguistic foundations that support reading, reasoning, emotional understanding, and long-term academic success. By engaging infants in rich, responsive dialogue, we expand the variety and breadth of their lexicon, helping them form stronger word associations and deeper language comprehension from the very beginning. Support from a highly-qualified nanny can ensure that your baby is receiving this level of engagement even when you’re not there. These seemingly simple exchanges form the scaffolding for lifelong communication, learning, and social-emotional well-being, and they prove that even the quietest early conversations truly matter.

References

N. Ferjan RamĂ­rez, S.R. Lytle, & P.K. Kuhl, Parent coaching increases conversational turns and advances infant language development, Proc. Natl. Acad. Sci. U.S.A. 117 (7) 3484-3491, https://doi.org/10.1073/pnas.1921653117 (2020).

U.S. Department of Health & Human Services, Administration for Children & Families, Office of Head Start. (2024, December 23). Early Social Interactions Build Connections in the Brain [Brief].

LENA. (2019, September 10). New research strengthens link between adult-child conversation and brain structure, reading skills. LENA.

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Congratulations! You’ve been selected to interview with ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝. This distinguishes you as a highly regarded professional based on a multitude of factors. Our team looks forward to having a conversation with you about your qualifications and experience as well as roles that may be a good fit for your background and personality. All members of our team are former nannies themselves with a keen eye for professionalism in the childcare industry. We’ve been in your shoes before; we want success for you just as much as we did for ourselves. So, with this in mind, how can you prepare for your interview? 

1. Professionalism

2. Environment

3. Preparedness

1) Professionalism

Though all of our interviews are conducted through Zoom, treat it like you’re arriving at an office space to meet in person. We encourage business casual attire and punctuality. Prior to meeting you’ll have uploaded what can be thought of as a “portfolio” that you might bring to a job interview. This will include your resume, education verification (such as a transcript) and at least three references. Be prepared to talk about your recent experience while highlighting your key qualities. This is your time to shine! It’s an opportunity to represent yourself in the best way possible and we’re thrilled to hear what you have to bring to the table. 

2) Environment

A calm, quiet environment sets us all up for a productive conversation. Arrange to have a well lit space with minimal distractions to take your interview from. We allot one hour for you to meet with one of our team members. This typically is plenty of time, especially if hiccups such as noise distractions or shaky video are mitigated ahead of time!

3) Preparedness

Arriving at your interview prepared is setting yourself up for success! In order to move forward with the interview, we will ask you to upload certain documents to your profile on our website. These “portfolio” pieces, that were explained in the previous section, are what we use to conduct the interview from. Please, be sure to have those resources uploaded in a timely manner so that we can move forward with your application in a supportive and meaningful way on our end! 

This part of the process will also ask for three references. Please let these contacts know that we will be calling them and to keep an eye out for our reach out. The sooner we can get in touch with them, the sooner we can present your profile to the family and facilitate what will hopefully be a successful and meaningful connection between both parties.

Additionally, we will prior to your interview. Do a quick run through to make sure your pages showcase how you would like to be represented to a potential employer. Setting your accounts to private is always a safe bet, as well.

Finally, acquaint yourself with ahead of time if you’re not already a frequent user! I once had a zoom interview, after having not used zoom for years, and was panic-stricken when I realized at the time of the call that I didn’t have the latest version of the app and my log-in information was unrecognized. The matter resolved quickly and I was able to join my interview just a couple minutes late. However, the anxious feeling of being presented with an obstacle before even entering the interview left me shaken and not able to be totally present during the meeting. We completely understand that technology can throw all of us for a loop from time to time, but save yourself the headache and do a test run beforehand. 

Preparing thoughtfully for your ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ interview is an investment in your professional success. By demonstrating preparedness, professionalism, and attention to detail, you show that you take both your craft and this opportunity seriously. Our team is genuinely excited to learn more about you and to explore the possibilities of matching you with a family who aligns with your values and expertise. We look forward to meeting you soon and witnessing the qualities that make you stand out as an exceptional childcare professional!

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Last week we were introduced to Sophie and Jack, who selflessly invited us into their world as parents to a neurodiverse child. In part two, Sophie and Jack tell us their message to other parents and the value of a proper childcare team. 

As we spoke, I recalled an interaction Sophie had had with a well-meaning acquaintance. In reference to Sophie and Jack’s oldest son, this person said, “Autism is his superpower”. This bothered Sophie because it discredited how hard her son has to work just to exist in a neurotypical societal structure. It discredits her and Jack and how hard they work every day as parents. I reminded them of this to hear more of their thoughts on the toxic positivity that sometimes floats around the zeitgeist. 

J: “[In the case of our son, autism as a super power is] utter nonsense”. 

S: “There’s a place for all of it, people are allowed to feel how they want to feel, but the messages that resonate the most with me are the ones that both acknowledge the hard and see the worth and the joy. A life lived differently is not a life less lived. At the same time, he has a real disability. It affects every aspect of his life, and it also affects our other children’s lives and our lives: we are taking his disability into account with every decision we make, and we have to consider his needs in every situation we encounter.

To gloss over that piece of it in service of the idea that he’s a whole person is just not necessary; of course he’s a whole person. This should be an obvious fact, just as it is for our other two kids.

He is important and he is not worth less than anyone else because of his disability. However, he does have a disability that requires accommodations and support, and many things are more difficult for him than they would be if he didn’t have a disability. If we forget that piece as a society, we leave kids and families to fend for themselves when what they really need is support.”. 

S: “With the best of intentions, people try to jump in as if they know best. Watching how people choose to react when finding out he has autism or an intellectual disability is really interesting. You get a lot of, ‘Oh my god, I’m so sorry’. You’re like, ‘No, no condolences necessary,… he just has autism’”. 

J: “Or you get, ‘My nephew has Asperger’s! He’s at MIT!’”.  

S: “Another important thing to remember for people interacting with children with special needs and their parents is that we're trying to teach our son to interact in the world in a socially acceptable way. So if you encounter a child like ours out with their caregiver, it’s a good idea to follow the lead of the people who know the child best and are trying to help him. If they are

coaching their child on how to respond appropriately in a given social situation, don’t cut them off and say ‘No, it’s fine!’ Let them work on the skill so their child can learn to respond appropriately or safely in future social situations”. 

J: “You get a lot of silly questions and suggestions, some of which are a bit intrusive–about financial planning, parenting choices, family dynamics. Of course we’ve already thought about what you’re proposing we think about”. 

S: “Yeah, a lot of people think they have magical insights. I think it’s important to assume competence when talking to all parents, but particularly with children with special needs, those parents have probably done a lot of research and know their child really well”. 

How does the reality of your present differ from what you thought it would look like? 

S: “Before we got the diagnosis, I thought having a child with an intellectual disability was one of the worst things that could happen. Our lived reality of having a son with an intellectual disability is different in many ways than what we imagined our life would look like–and it’s challenging in many ways, too.

But it is also full of meaning and joy. It has brought so many wonderful people into our lives, and it has completely changed us and made us better people. Our son has taught us so much about what’s truly important in life. A life with a disability is not a life less lived. Personhood is personhood whether you have a disability or not. Of course I would have said that before, but watching our oldest grow into the guy that he's becoming has really made that truly, viscerally clear to me in a way that I didn’t understand before”. 

J: “I have had very little experience with people with intellectual disabilities. I had always felt…uncomfortable is too strong, but I just didn't know what to do with them. Frankly, when I was growing up going through town, you didn't see them. They were hidden away. So, I thought this was going to be the end of the world, so to speak.

When it first happens to you, all you can do is compare what your child is doing compared with the other kids, how much harder they are compared with the other kids, what their future might look like compared with the other kids. All of that is extremely daunting. With time, you learn that what life actually looks like is not what you feared. Of course it has challenges, but our son can lead a worthwhile, joyful life. He is a real member of our family who communicates with us, who laughs, who cries. He comes with us on our trips. Like any kid, he can be an absolute joy and a total pain in the butt”. 

S: “The things that bring me joy about being his parent are the same things that bring me joy with the other kids. He is a great kid: hard working, silly, and affectionate, and he has a great sense of humor and lots of things he’s passionate about. There are many challenges, of course.

But now we can look at him with hope and say we're all going to do the best we can to help him reach his fullest potential, the same way you would for your other kids as you guide them to lead

a meaningful life. In that way, I don't think the core value of our life looks dramatically different from what I pictured it being when we started a family, even though of course the logistics are more complicated than we imagined they would be. There's more pressure on Jack to make sure we’re set up for our oldest to be taken care of”. 

J: “Planning. Financially you basically have to start thinking about, not just your own retirement, but his long term care; which is a significant challenge”. 

How has Chris’ diagnosis affected your marriage? 

S: “Our marriage was pretty strong prior to him… 

J: …stronger now. What I would say though, for any couple going through a traumatic experience together, in the short term it is deeply uncomfortable. I don't think I was the easiest person to live with for a while there. But you either let it make things dramatically worse or you're going to get through to the other side and become stronger for it. It forced communication; it forced working through past problems. Any problems you are having, you can't really tolerate them when you're under that level of stress. So, in a weird way it makes you stronger”. 

S: “We made the conscious decision to turn toward each other instead of away from each other. I feel like our marriage now is… 

J: “…it’s okay”. Said with a cheeky disposition 

S: She laughs. 

What do you wish parents of neurotypical children understood about your experience as a parent? 

J: “In the beginning, we were very isolated. We had early intervention services, but those were mostly individual therapy appointments, so there wasn’t much opportunity to meet other parents who understood what we were going through. Before we got into the public school system, we felt cut off from the rest of the community. All the playdates didn’t work for us, Sophie was dealing with getting to all the therapy appointments and doctor’s appointments to manage all of our son’s health issues, and we were always acutely aware of our child’s inability to keep up with other kids and with the typical developmental timeline.

Oftentimes, the extended family felt unsure of how to deal with our son, so some of our family members pulled back. And even with friends and family who didn’t pull away, it was hard for us to see them because our son needed such a great deal of attention that visits were difficult. It was very, very isolating. As the kids got into the public school system in our town, the special needs parents had a great support network that we’ve become part of, and that has been a big help. It makes us feel like part of a community rather than like we’re doing it alone”. 

S: “Some people see me mostly as a mom to the younger two. They go to a different elementary school than our oldest did, and not everyone there knows him. Invitations come along, expectations of volunteering for things and attending community or school events where families with neurotypical children can participate effortlessly, and it's very challenging.

Depending on the event, it can be hard for me to safely manage all three kids. My son can tend to wander and doesn’t have a great understanding of safe behavior in public, and he also needs a lot of scaffolding to participate socially. If he comes to any family event, he needs a great deal of attention and support, so it’s difficult to focus on my other children or help out the other adults as a volunteer unless we have a second adult present. If we want to bring the younger two to a party that entails music and loud noises, that's a real challenge because it requires getting a babysitter for our oldest or bringing along a one-to-one aide to support him, or maybe Jack has to leave work early to come help me–which is a difficult proposition a lot of the time”. 

Although their oldest can be a noisy guy himself (he loves to chat about his special interests), he is very noise sensitive regarding the world around him. For many years, he was terrified of anything loud. Walks would end with a dash back to the house and tears because of a lawn mower or leaf blower.

Teachers had to come up with alternate paths outside the school to avoid the machine that cleans the cafeteria. Parties are still an iffy proposition because of the crowds and noise and for many years were completely impossible.

Music anywhere in the house would prompt a demand to turn it off, even if he was in a different room. The Happy Birthday song is his biggest phobia of all; for years, if someone sang the birthday song, it would result in a full panic attack that would require days, sometimes weeks, of emotional support from his parents to get beyond it.

He will talk about it constantly as if it had been the most traumatic moment of his life. Beyond the additional difficulty in navigating public places, this also leads to a family dilemma that demonstrates the kind of sacrifices that siblings of kids with special needs often make to accommodate their siblings.

Sophie and Jack had to decide: do they force their oldest to endure an experience that he perceives as physically and emotionally unbearable, the same way we experience pain and terror? Or do they take the Happy Birthday song away from their neurotypical kids on their birthdays? It seems like an impossible question, but like most things so far, they’ve developed a system.

They don’t sing the birthday song at home, as it’s a safe space, and all three kids know that when it’s time to blow out candles, the oldest is going to retreat to somewhere that is safe and quiet for him and return to share cake and ice cream after the candles are out.

The siblings have become so sensitive to their brother’s feelings that they don’t really like hearing the birthday song in public now, either. Their daughter, particularly, feels nervous when she hears it and looks around to make sure her brother is out of ear shot even when she knows he’s far away or not present.

Their oldest refuses to attend non-family birthday parties and the family has to get a babysitter so both parents can attend these events.

Sophie and Jack’s house used to be filled with music at all hours. For a time, this had to be one of the sacrifices they made in service of their son.  

S: “But we’ve been working on it, and he’s made so much progress. We’ve been adding music in the car and in other rooms, and he’s learning to be much more flexible about that, although we turn it off for him when we’re all in the same room and he requests it. We sometimes turn it on and have a dance party, which he enjoys, and he can tolerate it in the car now. It’s a learning process, and we’re always trying to build these skills to help him be a part of the world. He’s really doing great with it. 

S: “But it’s true that everything requires more thought, more planning, more consideration around ‘can we do this or not?’. I would love nothing more than to be one of the parents that signs up to volunteer for things, but our oldest needs that one-on-one support in group settings to ensure safety and appropriate behavior.

I really want to be there for what my neurotypical kids need, but there are those additional needs from him that sometimes make it impossible and in every instance require lots of planning.

There’s nothing that we do ever in our lives as a whole family that doesn't involve a lot of pre-planning and accommodation toward making it work for our son.That’s what I really want other parents to understand. Even with all the pre-planning in the world, we may have to leave early or might have trouble being social while we are there if he’s requiring a lot of support”. 

What would you say to other parents whose child has just received a diagnosis? 

S: “When it first happened, there’s this poem, ‘. This poem made me so mad when he was first diagnosed. It makes a lot of sense to me now that I’m in a better place”. 

J: “Everyone sends you this damn poem”. 

S: “It made me so mad, I hated it. But, my ultimate message would be something in the vein of that poem. It is going to be hard, you are going to have to grieve the life you had planned, you are going to need to readjust to pretty much everything in your life, but you still have this child 

in front of you who you love and who loves you.

Your family is going to be okay and you are going to get back to a better place. But you know, maybe that's not even a fair thing to say to some families depending where they are in their journey. There is a lot about our family that has ended up working well, and we’ve gotten to a really great place, but I know there are families out there who have bigger challenges and less support.

I wouldn’t want to be the person sending Welcome to Holland to someone who is going through something a million times harder. But I know that the right message is to try to reach out and find support where you can, because there are lots of wonderful people out there who want to help, and to find the joy and the peace that exist in the small moments during your day. Celebrate your wins, whatever they look like in your world”. 

J: “It sounds cheesy, but it does get better. I'm always very hesitant to talk to people about it. I'm in a group at work, for parents of Autistic children, and when new people join, you can see that they're really going through it. It feels like the end of the world because it's not what you expected. Of course it's going to be hard, but it will be okay”. 

What was your experience of having a nanny with a special education background as part of your support team? 

J: “It was a tremendous benefit”. 

S: “Tremendous. Part of the reason why our story is such a positive one is that all three of us had learning mindsets and open communication in our approach. If you can approach raising your child as a team endeavor alongside someone who has expertise, you can bounce off each other and get to a much better place than you would on your own”. 

What did this look like day-to-day? 

S: “When our oldest was at his most challenging, having another adult in the household made it so much less isolating and made me feel so much more able to center myself and approach the challenge from an emotionally regulated place because I felt like I had support, not just our son.

When you’re doing it by yourself it’s so overwhelming. But coming up with plans together and implementing them together, whether that’s your spouse, a nanny, or any team of trusted help… 

J: “...there’s a lot to be said for someone coming in fresh. The grind will get you. Sleep deprivation will get you. I remember coming in the door and Sophie felt such relief with that changing of the guards…I would take over the least emotionally regulated child because I was coming in fresh. 

S: “And the solidarity of feeling like you have support, that you’re not doing it alone. It’s so important as a parent to operate from an emotionally regulated place, especially to a special needs child. They can be even more draining on your emotional bandwidth.

Particularly with certain diagnoses, their needs can be so high at times. Having another person to tap in during the hardest moments is so amazing. It gives you someone to create a plan with, to implement that plan with…

J: “...and that person can come in fresh with that un-exhausted brain. Finding a person who has been trained in the field who can help you navigate the tricky situations that come up, it’s absolutely invaluable”. 

S: “Also, getting to watch how someone, who has the expertise, handles a situation with your child is so helpful if you can approach it with a learning mindset. When it works well, it can completely move the needle.You say to yourself, ‘Oh! I’m going to do that next time’. It gets you there in a way that just brainstorming on your own or reading about it on your own doesn’t. Seeing a new technique work in real time with someone else really helps you get to a better place, and it has really improved my parenting”. 

Sometimes reflection is required to truly appreciate how far we all have come in life, either as individuals, family units, at work, or in our friendships and partnerships. The hum drum of our every day can dilute what deserves celebration.

After reading part one of this series, Sophie and Jack expressed grateful disbelief about how far their oldest and their family has come, as compared to those formidable, early days of an official diagnosis. To this, they credited their team of teachers, therapists, and a highly-qualified nanny…their partnership with each other and importantly, the resilience of their son. They hope that sharing their story instills hope in other parents and caregivers.

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Like on most Saturday afternoons, Sophie and Jack are conducting the goings-on of their home like an orchestra. Sophie is breading chicken in preparation for chicken parmesan as the timer on the toaster oven goes off. She opens the door with her clean hand and the smell of blue cheese on figs escapes. 

Jack is traversing a kitchen floor that is covered in all the trappings of homemade Halloween decorations; construction paper, tape, markers, and scissors, while holding a bowl filled with enough dog food to feed their Great Dane. Each of their three children plays independently while the adults perform the necessary duties to set us up for an uninterrupted conversation. 

Sophie and Jack’s oldest child is neurodiverse. In the following interview, they discuss with me what the experience for them, as caregivers, has been. As with everything else they do, this conversation was borne out of their deep capacity for generosity; generosity with their time, their truth, and their story.

Part one will explore receiving a diagnosis for their son and the emotions that followed before looking towards the future, the value of a proper support team, and their message to other parents in part two.

1. Receiving a Diagnosis 

2. Personal Identity 

3. Being a Parent

1) Receiving a Diagnosis

So, tell me about your family… 

S: “We are a family of five. Since this is an interview about our experience as special needs parents, I’ll start with a bit about our oldest: he is 12 and has , which means he is missing a piece of his 22nd chromosome. Much like Autism Spectrum Disorder, 22Q has many potential symptoms and a wide variance among people diagnosed. Some are profoundly disabled. Others have milder cases and might not realize they have the deletion until later in life or not at all. In our particular case, our son is also diagnosed with  intellectual disability, autism, and ADHD. He is being followed by many doctors for other various physical symptoms as well, although we’ve been lucky that he has been on the relatively healthy end of the spectrum for kids with this disability. His most challenging areas are around activities of daily living, anxiety, social skills, safety, and attention. He is in a subseparate classroom and is receiving lots of therapies through the school system, and when he was younger he needed many interventions as well. Our middle child is a girl, she is 10 and typically developing. Our youngest is a boy, he is 7 and also typically developing. I’m a stay at home mom”. 

J: “I work in IT”.

10G: “And I go to school!”, Sophie and Jack’s daughter exclaims with a smile on her face. She is sitting with us in the kitchen. They know that just as it is for them and their son, her life is also affected by special needs in a way that they did not plan for her. Because of this, they give her the respect of a literal seat at the table when adults are discussing matters that involve her, within reason. 

What prompted you to inquire about a diagnosis for your oldest? 

S: “In the delivery room he had an issue with one of his eyes, there was an ophthalmologist in the room immediately and I think you knew *turns to Jack* right then and there that something was going to be amiss”. 

J: “I strongly suspected, as did my dad…the first thing he said was ‘we’re gonna love him unconditionally’ and I was like ‘jeez, dad...okay go for the darkest thought’, but I guess that's what we do”. 

S: “I was hoping for the best for a while, I think that was my way of processing in bits. I couldn't jump to the possibility of a lifelong disability immediately. It felt too overwhelming to consider that while working to make the already difficult transition into new parenthood, complete with sleep deprivation, trying (unsuccessfully) to nurse, and figuring out how to be a mom. I wanted to be able to hope for the best outcome–which to me at the time was that he was a bit behind but that he would catch up. I did notice in the baby classes we did that he was having trouble with some of the stuff the other babies were doing easily; at each stage he wasn't hitting his milestones. I was worried enough that I thought he needed help to catch up with his peers. When I wanted to get him into when he was less than a year old, I remember the pediatrician said, ‘You can wait until he’s 2’, and I was like ‘I don't want to wait’”. 

So you had an intuition that was tugging at you? 

S: “Yes, I knew that something was wrong, I was hoping it… 

J: …he was clearly not making his milestones, he was clearly not keeping up with other kids… 

S: …but we didn't know exactly what it was, so I think I was hoping that it would be something that… 

J: …he cried a lot”. 

S: “Yeah he was a tough baby”.

J: “He was crying or sleeping pretty much as a newborn”. 

Sophie and Jack’s sentences weave together like they’re braiding hair. They finish them for each other while keeping eye contact, almost like they can read each other’s minds. 

S: “When we had him in early intervention and they did the assessment on him, I remember seeing it come back that he was in the abnormal range for speech, OT, cognition, PT… everything across the board. I remember getting that back and seeing how low those scores were and being like ‘Oh…okay’. We knew our child, but seeing the scores compared with the average in black and white is a different experience. 

I spoke with the lady from early intervention, and she suggested getting a genetic test done. I asked her, ‘Could it be something…’, I don't know if I said, ‘fixable’, but maybe, ‘Could it be something minor, or is this something almost certainly life alteringly-big? Could he grow out of these low scores or are we looking at a lifetime of having difficulty in all these areas?’. The low cognition in particular felt frightening to me. She kind of looked at me and shook her head and said something like, ‘it’s very, very unlikely (that he will grow out of this)’. 

What did that feel like? 

S: “Awful”. 

J: “I mean, I had already assumed that's where we were going, but hearing it was a total gut punch”. 

S: “Yeah, it felt like all hope was…*nods*. But we did the genetic test, and Jack was away on a business trip in California when I got the call from the doctor.” 

So you weren’t together when you got the call? 

J: “No, I was in LA”. 

Sophie starts to cry at this moment. I suggest we pause or stop altogether but she shakes her head “no” and insists we go on. Suddenly, her oldest appears at her side asking if she is going to make him salmon for dinner. She has to let him down; chicken is for dinner tonight. He saunters off at this news which makes us all laugh. This moment of levity cuts into the most emotional part of the interview so far, and we’re all amused by it. 

S: “Yeah, so I got the call from the doctor and immediately started googling 22q, and there’s such a wide range. I still was hoping for the best in one part of my mind, thinking ‘oh, maybe it could be the most minor end of the spectrum’. But at this point, my hope was tempered with a lot of facts and information. Probabilities for various outcomes. Regardless, it was definitely looking like there were going to be a lot of challenges in our future. Jack was in LA and he just, did you take a run or something?”. 

J: “I don't really remember, I think I went into a fugue state while wandering the streets of Hollywood”. 

How long were you apart for after receiving that news? 

S: “Only a day, but it felt so long. I just gave our son a big hug and looked at him and said to him, ‘You’re still you. You're still exactly the same kid you were before we just know more now’. That's a perspective that you have now, all these years later. I was trying to have that outlook at the time, but you have to go through the grief before you can really get there. I was doing a lot of googling during breaks from taking care of him”. 

What was the journey like of coming to terms with that as a couple and as individuals? 

S: “I think we handled it a little bit differently as individuals, but we did try to come together and support each other as a couple and talk about it. I think we would kind of take turns; if one of us was struggling, the other one was being strong and being supportive. Then we might switch. But we did handle it differently mentally. I was always trying to look for the silver lining so I had enough positivity to get through the whole day at home parenting our son, while he really needed to go deeper into his grief all at once before he could climb his way out of it. I would grieve in pieces, and if it became too much, I would try to put it away to come back to when I had more time to process. And, I think, to give myself a mental break so that I didn’t fall completely apart.” 

J: “I was deeply depressed for a year or two”. 

You're using the word grief…what were you grieving? 

S: “The life we had hoped for for our son, and for us, and for our family”. 

J: “I think grief is the perfect word for it. Nobody, when they have a child, thinks that will happen to them. We don't have a family history of anything like this, we just didn't see it coming. I don't think any young couple, when they have their first child, thinks that’s going to happen to them. You think about it happening to you, instead of thinking about the child, at least at first. You’re grieving the way you thought your life was going to go”.

2) Personal Identity

J: “It has fundamentally changed our identities and made us better people…”. 

S: “Being a stay at home mom changes your identity, and with our son, that wasn’t really much of a choice. Childcare is more challenging with a kid that needs the amount of supervision he does. With doctor’s appointments, therapy appointments, and days out of school for frequent illnesses, the number of days that I would have had to be out would have made any employer baulk…we basically decided to put all of our eggs in one basket with Jack’s career so that one of us could be fully available. It has been a tough shift for my identity…I have my masters degree. Those skills haven’t gone away, but they had to be shifted into ways to use them to benefit my family and the life that we’ve built”. 

Do you ever find yourself wondering about what your career may have become? 

S: “We talk about that and the trajectory it may have taken. But I’m proud of the person I’ve grown into on this path, too”.  

J: “I doubled down on my career more than I would have. I'm not naturally a type A person. I really have thrown myself into the ‘dad’ role more consciously. I was raised in a household where the parents were relatively hands off. I feel very protective of our oldest and all my kids so… I get very demonstrative in my love, which is different from how I was raised. I think it’s a good thing”. 

As someone who is also not type A, I imagine it would be exhausting to adopt type A personality traits when that is not your natural personality. 

J: “Yes, completely exhausting. Like with anything, human beings are very adaptable, to damn near anything. So, it's almost like I have a split personality: work personality and home personality. For me, that's a good way to attack it, you have to be able to ‘turn off’ when you get home. For someone like our son, the pace has to be slower, then when you go back to work you have to go pretty hard”.  

3) Being a Parent

What is your favorite thing about being parents? 

S: “The individual relationships I get to build with each of my kids, but also the family dynamic that we get to build together. There’s a lot of love in our home.”

J: “I really like that my kids and my wife are like my best friends. I really like getting to teach the kids new stuff and experience things through their eyes”. 

S: “Watching them become the people they’re growing into is a really cool thing to watch”. What is your favorite thing about your youngest son? 

J: “He is very demonstrative with his love. He is, you know, a deeply sensitive but also empathetic person. He is also hilarious and very joyful. I'm not going to say he's not an anxious person but compared to the rest of us, he's more carefree, and I think that is going to serve him well”. 

Next, I ask their favorite thing about their daughter. For the first time, Sophie and Jack don’t look towards each other before answering, they simply look with adoration at their daughter across the table from them. She looks back, so child-like and completely mature all at once, but beaming with anticipation to hear their answers. 

J: “I really, what I think about her, which isn't always fair to her, but I think of her as the oldest child. She's the one that I can treat as my partner sometimes, the one that I can rely on for help with the other two kids. She's very reliable, she's very responsible, she's deeply kind, and she has a sense for her brothers that is a little bit parental, that I sometimes fear is too much and I worry is a burden for her…yeah, it's heavy, but it's something that I respect and love about her”.

S: “I'm impressed with how thoughtful she is about herself and other people. I think that she is a very introspective person. She gives a lot of thought to things, and she cares about making good decisions. She is growing into a young woman that I am extremely proud of, in the way that she treats other people, in the way that she orients herself in the world. She is kind, hardworking, and 

cares a lot. I love that about her”. 

What is your favorite thing about your oldest son? 

S: “I think it’s really the same as the other kids, I enjoy watching him learn and grow. Developing a strong relationship with him and watching the person he’s becoming. Even though it’s not the same trajectory as the other two kids, it’s really the same thing. He has a great sense of humor. He’s a hard worker. He is passionate about so many of his interests. And the way that he shows love is very pure”. 

J: “There is no filter for better or for worse”. 

10G: “His hugs are like this–demonstrates a tight hug”.

J: “His kisses are truly an experience”. 

10G: “He kisses you for like three minutes straight”. 

S: “The way he experiences joy is very….it kind of makes everyone around him also feel joy”. 10G: “When he smiles it feels really good”. 

S: “The purity of his joy. I also love his sense of humor. He’s a very empathetic person. Well, not empathetic…”. 

J: “That's complicated”. 

S: “I think he truly cares about other people. He can be…the social skills are difficult and it’s sometimes difficult for him to know how to express his empathy at first without a bit of scaffolding. But he cares about others.” 

J: “Yeah, and he can get lost because of his own anxieties, but he is a fundamentally empathetic person underneath his disability. But, yeah…the purity of his joy”. 

It’s true, the world around him bends towards his joy. He invites you into experiencing it with him in a way that makes you feel like you belong. I know, because I worked with him, Sophie, Jack, and the other two children in a nanny role for many years. This role allowed for many things including sufficient care for all the children and their various needs at a crucial time in their early childhood, as well as the smooth operation of the home. They are now some of my closest friends. In part two we will dig deeper into the value of an adequate childcare team and what Sophie and Jack want parents of neurotypical children to know. 

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As parents and caregivers, many of us find ourselves in a stage of life when the kids’ menu at home becomes a revolving door of the same five meals. We want them to broaden their palates just as much as we don’t want to cook another grilled cheese. We worry about their nutritional intake, about the social consequences of being a “picky eater”, and about the meltdown that may or may not await us at dinnertime. Try as we may, googling “kids dinner recipes” is nary the help we think it surely will be. I applaud the ambition of these food bloggers, but my child is just not eating hidden-broccoli, green cheese sauce, “Monster Mash Mac and Cheese”.

As Boston’s leading nanny agency, we understand that setting your children up for success is paramount in all aspects of parenting and caregiving, and more do-able than you might think in this case. If we can incorporate evidence-based practices, consistency, and neutrality in our demeanors when introducing new foods to our children, we might sooner be seeing success at meal time. Here are four strategies for the successful immersion of new foods into your child’s rotation.

1. Consistency

2. Food of the Week

3. Visual Schedules

4. Compassion

5. References

1) Consistency

The research suggests that repeated exposures to foods increases the likelihood of your child warming up to trying them and eventually eating them regularly. Importantly, the amount of times you expose a child to a certain food can be quite high before you start to see engagement. Try not to give up! “Among studies demonstrating repeated exposure effects during middle childhood, increases in target food acceptance have been shown following 2–9 exposures”, (Ehrenberg, S., et al.). If you worry about food waste, choose a food that the adults in the house will already be eating at that meal and share a small “tasting” amount with your child. This may look like placing a singular green bean on your child’s plate nine nights in a row–that is okay! 

There is often a time between early and middle childhood when children decide they are no longer interested in many foods they had been eating with no problem. This is why it is beneficial to be consistently exposing them to a variety of foods both in early childhood (birth to six-years-old) and middle childhood (six-years-old to eleven-years-old); it lays the foundation for the foods they choose and their willingness to try new foods later in life. 

“During the third year of life, most children enter a neophobic phase during which previously liked foods are no longer accepted and introduction of new foods becomes difficult. However, habits of eating a variety of foods acquired before the neophobic phase track further on into childhood, adolescence and early adulthood. This underlines the importance of promoting the access to a variety of foods in early childhood”, (Nicklaus, S., 2008). The moral of the story is: when the repeated exposures start to tally up, don’t get discouraged!

2) Food of the Week

While effortful, Food of the Week is a fun and engaging strategy to introduce new foods. It entails choosing one food or ingredient and, throughout the course of one week, creating opportunities for exposure and learning through various lenses. 

For example, in Autumn I often choose corn as a Food of the Week for my preschoolers. We start by going to the grocery store together to pick out what looks the best from the selection. Once we return, we shuck the corn from its husk together, creating a game of “treasure hunting” when the golden corn cob is revealed beneath the green leaves. We laugh together when one of the children uses the silky fibers to pretend they have long hair. We spend time talking about what the corn feels like, smells like, and looks like. We even laid out a roll of easel paper, spread paint on the corn cobs and rolled them along the paper to create “corn art”. One day we popped popcorn on the stove together, another we touched frozen corn kernels before watching them boil in a pot on the stove, and we even baked corn bread. Involving the children in household tasks, such as cooking, promotes high self-esteem and fosters a bond between you and them. Also, when they get to see the finished product of their work, they're more likely to want to taste test it. 

Talking about the ways in which different cultures eat corn was exciting for the children, as well. We read about elote in Mexico and binatog in the Phillipines. The children enjoyed picture books about Native Americans and their historical relationship to corn.

By the end of the week, the children were eating corn-on-the-cob. Not all liked it, but all willingly and enthusiastically tried it.

3) Visual Schedules

Children make very few of the decisions affecting their own lives. When we allow them a perceived sense of control they are better able to regulate their emotional reactions. That is why visual schedules are a helpful tool around mealtimes. You can create a Monday-Friday calendar and print out small pictures of various foods that you know the child will eat and foods you know will be a first encounter. 

Then, laminate all materials and apply velcro to each day and to each food option. That way, each morning the child can choose from a selection of your pre-approved menu items and assign them to the dinner menu for later that night. 

Creating predictability and a sense of agency for the child sets everyone up for success. The child has their emotional cup filled from the feeling of control over that choice, while we know that we have facilitated a pool of options to feel proud of and contributes to forward progress in their journey towards trying new foods. 

4) Compassion

Don’t fall into absolutist thinking patterns around this topic; compassion and patience are the best things you can offer yourself and your child. If your son, daughter, or child you're responsible for are going off to school or to bed with full tummies from sufficient calories for their age…you’ve already won (even if those calories are coming from their third grilled cheese this week). 

Childhood is full of different seasons that come and go, try not to be too hard on yourself. According to , children before the age of seven are immersed in centration. Their growing brains have only developed enough to be able to acknowledge one characteristic of a situation at a time. Simply, they cannot yet hold two feelings at once: “That food is new so it must be yucky” and “Maybe if I try it I’ll realize I like it”. 

In almost all cases, a child is going to cling to the former. Just like you, they too are doing the best they can…just from an earlier stage of brain development. Use your better judgement, some nights they may have the capacity to be scaffolded towards taking a risk and trying a new food with dinner; some nights they may need you to accept and support their “no thank you”. With consistency and neutral attitudes around eating, your children will evolve into adopting better eating habits. They’ll get there a lot faster without shame or pressure attached to meal time.  

You’re already doing a great job by caring enough to support your child’s relationship with food. With a little consistency, creativity, and compassion, you can gently guide them toward greater variety without pressure or stress. Remember, progress at the dinner table doesn’t happen overnight—but every small step counts, and your efforts truly matter.

5) References

Nicklaus, S. (2008). Development of food variety in children. Food Quality and Preference, 19(6), 562-568.

Ehrenberg, S., Leone, L. A., Sharpe, B., Reardon, K., & Anzman-Frasca, S. (2019). Using repeated exposure through hands-on cooking to increase children's preferences for fruits and vegetables. Appetite, 142, 104347.

Centration- a preoperational child's tendency to focus on only one aspect of a situation at a time, to the exclusion of other relevant aspects. 

Neophobic- the fear of anything new, especially a persistent and abnormal fear. In its milder form, it can manifest as the unwillingness to try new things or break from routine. In the context of children the term is generally used to indicate a tendency to reject unknown or novel foods

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Summer is the perfect time for children to enjoy Boston’s wealth of educational opportunities outside the classroom. As a trusted Boston Nanny Agency with deep local connections, we’re uniquely positioned to recommend enriching outings that balance fun with learning. Whether your child is fascinated by science, history, nature, or storytelling, our nanny-approved list highlights the very best places to explore in Boston this summer.

1. Boston °äłóžąąôťĺ°ůąđ˛Ô’s Museum

2. New England Aquarium

3. Boston Tea Party Ships & Museum

4. Franklin Park Zoo

5. Museum of Science

6. Boston Public Library

7. Arnold Arboretum

8. MIT Museum

1) Boston °äłóžąąôťĺ°ůąđ˛Ô’s Museum

This beloved institution offers hands-on exhibits that inspire creativity, cultural awareness, and learning in a vibrant, age-appropriate environment. With innovative spaces designed specifically for young minds, is perfect for play with purpose.

2) New England Aquarium

For the budding nature lover in your life, the provides a captivating introduction to ocean science and conservation. Within this aquatic wonderland, children are encouraged to explore marine ecosystems up close, discover how they function, and learn why they matter.

3) Boston Tea Party Ships & Museum

A visit to this will transport your children back to a pivotal moment in America’s Revolutionary history. Your time on these full-scale replica 18th-century sailing vessels won’t be complete until you, too, have thrown tea into Boston’s iconic harbor!

4) Franklin Park Zoo

A trip to the zoo offers kids the chance to get up close to wildlife and pet cuddly animals. Visiting is also a wonderful way to introduce children to global biodiversity and the importance of nature conservation.

5) Museum of Science

Perennially popular for its immersive exhibits and dynamic live demonstrations, the brings complex concepts to life through play and exploration. A summer visit to this STEM-rich institution is the perfect opportunity to spark a lifelong interest in discovery and innovation.

6) Boston Public Library

Thanks to a calendar packed with story times, concerts, and more, the beautifully renovated children’s wing at the (BPL) is definitely worth checking out. The °äłóžąąôťĺ°ůąđ˛Ô’s Library in the BPL’s Copley Square location welcomes kids in grades eight and under. 

7) Arnold Arboretum

Get some fresh air and learn about the natural world on a trip to the . Curated by Harvard University, this 281-acre park acts as a living museum, featuring thousands of plant species from around the world.

8) MIT Museum

Right across the river in Cambridge’s Kendall Square, the showcases everything from robotics to holography—and beyond. This space introduces tech-curious children to the next generation of innovative thinking. 

As a leading Boston nanny agency, we know that learning doesn’t stop when school lets out. Quite the opposite! Our nannies view summer as the ideal season for enriching fun in the city. We hope this list helps nurture your children’s curiosity, confidence, and pursuit of knowledge.

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As a trusted Boston Nanny Agency, we know what makes a day trip fun and stress-free for children and grown-ups. Here are our favorite nanny-approved days out, all packed with things to see, touch, explore, and wonder at.

1. Concord, Massachusetts

2. Cape Cod, Massachusetts

3. Rockport, Massachusetts

4. Worcester, Massachusetts

5. Providence, Rhode Island

6. Lincoln, Massachusetts

7. Gloucester, Massachusetts

8. Salem, Massachusetts 

1) Concord, Massachusetts

Just 40 minutes from Boston by car, is a breath of fresh air and a lesson in American history. A day trip gives you plenty of time to burn off some energy on the trails of Minute Man National Historical Park before relaxing at tranquil Walden Pond.

2) Cape Cod, Massachusetts

The scenic 90-minute ferry trip from Boston to lets you arrive relaxed and ready to explore. Children love splashing in gentle waves and building sandcastles on the family-friendly beaches here. And who can resist the sweet treats served up in the Cape’s charming seaside towns?

3) Rockport, Massachusetts

The commuter rail from North Station will whisk you to this in an hour. The tide pools here are perfect for little ones hoping to spot crabs and starfish, while parents and caregivers will appreciate the peaceful harbor views.

4) Worcester, Massachusetts

The star attraction of your trip to will likely be the , a hands-on science and nature experience loved by children of all ages. If you have time, picnic in Green Hill Park or ramble through the beautiful New England Botanic Garden at Tower Hill.

5) Providence, Rhode Island

Easily reachable by car, is home to , a must-see destination for anyone visiting Rhode Island’s capital. Follow this up with a stroll through the city’s inviting parks or a meal at one of its many family-friendly restaurants.

6) Lincoln, Massachusetts

An easy bus ride away from Boston, is where you’ll find Mass Audubon’s Drumlin Farm Wildlife Sanctuary. Here, children can meet sheep, goats, chickens, and other animals while learning about farm life and nature conservation.

7) Gloucester, Massachusetts

Hop on a summer ferry to to get out on the water and experience marine life up close. Along with whale watching tours, seafood restaurants and sandy beaches await in this classic New England town. 

8) Salem, Massachusetts

Famous for its witch trial history, —just a half-hour train ride from Boston—has a lot to offer visiting families. The Peabody Essex Museum hosts a variety of hands-on exhibits and interactive displays, while children can learn about seafaring life on the Salem Maritime National Historic Site’s tall ships.

Thanks to this incredible array of day trips within easy reach, Boston has the world on its doorstep. At our trusted Boston Nanny Agency, we treasure these nearby gems that turn ordinary days into extraordinary adventures. With so much to explore in the area this summer, the possibilities for your Boston family are endless!

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From iconic landmarks and interactive museums to outdoor play spaces and splash parks, Boston is bursting with child-friendly summertime adventures. And whether you're a Boston parent or a professional nanny mapping out your summer calendar, knowing where to go and how to get there can make all the difference. To help you plan your visit, we’ve gathered expert tips from our wonderful local nannies to bring you the ultimate guide to a great day out in Boston.

1. Top nanny agency tips for exploring Boston with kids

2. Family-friendly summer activities in Boston

1) Top nanny agency tips for exploring Boston with kids

When you’re exploring a vibrant city like Boston, a little local know-how goes a long way. to visit is a great way to narrow down your options. Here are some of our top picks:

• Downtown Boston, home to famous attractions and historic landmarks, is ideal for first-time explorers.

• Boston Harbor’s waterfront and the Seaport District offer interactive museums and breezy walks with incredible views.

• Cambridge—just across the Charles River and home to science, natural history, and art museums galore—is a must-see for curious young minds.

• Jamaica Plain’s Arnold Arboretum features shaded trails and picnic-perfect lawns.

• The South End is perfect for toddlers and babies, thanks to its playgrounds and splash pads.

Getting around is easy, thanks to the affordable and extensive . 

Popular spots get crowded by mid-morning—especially in summer—so start early to make the most of your day out. Plan one major activity per outing, leaving time before or after for free play and snack breaks.

When exploring Boston with children, always pack water, sunscreen, and a spare change of clothes. City traffic can get a little hairy, especially near busy intersections; it’s often safer and less stressful to stick to pedestrian-friendly areas. For added peace of mind, consider using ID bracelets or tucking a contact info card into a child’s pocket. 

2) Family-friendly summer activities in Boston

Boston’s perfect blend of learning activities, green spaces, and hands-on fun makes it a dream city for family adventures. Whether you’re planning a full day out or just looking to entertain your kids for a few hours, there’s an exciting range of activities to choose from. Here are our suggestions:

• Explore the , where children love watching the penguins swim and hop, touching rays, and walking through the Giant Ocean Tank.

• Take a ride on the around the Boston Public Garden’s tranquil lagoon.

• Visit the to explore innovative hands-on exhibits, kid-friendly planetarium shows, and the live lightning show.

• Take a on an amphibious vehicle that winds through city streets and splashes right into the Charles River.

• Picnic in the and play on .

• Head to to get up close to animals of all shapes and sizes.

• Splash around at a spray park; our nannies’ favorites include the , , and .

• Enjoy story time and family activities at the .

• Explore , a beautiful outdoor landscape that’s perfect for nature lovers.

• Walk or bike along the .

From inviting playgrounds and museums to shaded gardens and story times, Boston has something for every age and interest. With a little planning and the support of a trusted Boston nanny agency like ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, you can enjoy a summer that’s safe, enriching, and full of cherished memories.

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Rainy days may thwart your outdoor plans, but they don’t have to be a total washout. At ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, our expert caregivers view wet weather as an exciting opportunity to spark imagination, encourage curiosity, and keep your children happily engaged. From cozy activities at home to our favorite rainy-day destinations across Boston, this guide is packed with nanny-approved ideas to make the most of every moment.

1. Rainy-day activity ideas from a trusted Boston nanny agency

2. Best rainy-day destinations in Boston

1) Rainy-day activity ideas from a trusted Boston nanny agency

The key to having a fun rainy day at home is to keep things varied and attuned to your child’s mood. Some days call for high-energy activities, while others might be perfect for storytelling and snuggles. Either way, staying inside doesn’t mean the day has to drag. With a little imagination, Boston parents can turn a gray day into a colorful one.

Here are some simple rainy-day activity ideas from the team at our trusted Boston nanny agency:

• Get crafty with what you’ve got: Set up a DIY art station using recycled materials like cardboard boxes, toilet paper rolls, or cereal boxes. Add glue, markers, and imagination, and you’ve got hours of entertainment.

• Create an indoor obstacle course: Use pillows, chairs, masking tape, and sofa cushions to create a kid-safe course around the living room. Just make sure fragile items are safely out of the way!

• Bake something together: Choose easy, child-friendly recipes like banana muffins, sugar cookies, or homemade pizza.

• Build a fort: Drape blankets over chairs or set up a pop-up tent in the living room. Add books, flashlights, and snacks to create a calm, contained space for quiet play.

• Host a living room performance: Encourage kids to put on a puppet show, act out a favorite story, or stage their own mini concert.

2) Best rainy-day destinations in Boston

Boston may not always have blue skies, but it does offer plenty of warm, welcoming spaces that invite kids to learn, explore, and play. When cabin fever sets in, remember these spots. They’re nanny-approved, weather-proof, and perfect for unforgettable adventures on a soggy day! 

• With three floors of interactive exhibits, is a hands-on wonderland for children of all ages.

• The planetarium shows, live demonstrations, and Discovery Center at the offer the perfect mix of education and excitement.

• The is a beautiful, calming space for reading, crafts, and free play. 

• High-energy indoor play spaces and climbing gyms like , , and are lifesavers during long, rainy weeks when outdoor play just isn’t possible.

• For something more low-key, local cafĂŠs with cozy play corners are great when you want to get out of the house without the pressure of a full-blown outing. 

As our nannies often say, rainy days are ideal opportunities to get creative and enjoy a different kind of fun. Whether you’re designing crafty castles at home or venturing out to one of Boston’s indoor gems, these moments can be just as memorable as sunny-day adventures. With guidance from an experienced nanny agency and a little bit of imagination, you can plan rainy days in Boston that will brighten your children’s lives.

Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

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Successful sleep training starts with understanding your baby’s natural rhythms and creating routines around them. At our trusted Boston nanny agency, our experienced team guides families through gentle, responsive strategies that encourage better sleep. 

1. What Is Sleep Training and Why Does It Matter?

2. Practical Sleep Training Tips from the Leading Boston Nanny Agency

1) What Is Sleep Training and Why Does It Matter?

Sleep training is the process of helping babies learn to fall asleep and stay asleep on their own. While that might sound simple, many parents know it can be anything but! Newborns are wired to wake frequently and can struggle to drop off to sleep even when they’re beyond exhausted.

As babies grow, healthy sleep patterns become crucial for both their development as well as their families’ well-being. Parents need rest to adequately function and care for their families. There’s a reason why people might be advising you to sleep when your baby does!

Sleep training doesn’t force a rigid routine, though, or ignore your baby’s needs. Instead, it focuses on working with your baby’s natural sleep patterns to build healthy habits and gently encourage self-soothing. This way, your baby will feel secure, get that all-important rest, and be able to fall asleep independently.

2) Practical Sleep Training Tips from the Leading Boston Nanny Agency

As the most trusted Boston nanny agency, ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ has supported countless families through the ups and downs of baby sleep. While we understand that every child is different, here are a few tried-and-true tips our professional nannies often recommend:

Recognize your baby’s natural sleep patterns

Sleep training is most effective when it’s aligned with your baby's natural sleep patterns. Pay attention to when your baby starts to get tired. This will help you plan for bedtime.

Create a sleep-friendly environment

Keep your nursery cool, dark, and quiet. Use blackout curtains and white noise machines to help signal that it’s time to sleep.

Develop a consistent bedtime routine

A simple bedtime routine can go a long way in helping your baby feel safe and ready for sleep. Consistency is key! A routine as straightforward as bath, feed, lullaby, and bed can work wonders.

Place your baby down when you see signs of sleepiness

Our nannies find that this small shift can make a big difference. Rather than waiting until your baby is fully asleep in your arms, place them in their crib while they’re still slightly awake. This gives them the chance to learn how to settle themselves and associate the crib with falling asleep.

At first, your baby may fuss or need extra comfort—and that’s okay. Sleep training isn’t about instant success. It instills good sleep habits over time. With patience and consistency, many babies learn to self-soothe and fall asleep more independently.

Plan to be woken up

Even with sleep training, it’s normal for babies to wake in the night. If your baby has trouble nodding off again, decide ahead of time whether you’ll offer comfort, a feed, or a quick check-in to help them settle.

Just remember: sleep training is a process, not a quick fix. Don’t panic if things go off track occasionally and take a moment to celebrate the little wins along the way. If you need extra support, please know that you’re never alone. The trusted caregivers and experienced professionals at ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ are here to help.

Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

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Mealtimes don’t have to feel like a daily battle between you, your fridge, and a lack of inspiration. With a few smart meal-planning habits, like prepping ahead, doubling freezer-friendly recipes, and adding weekly theme nights, dinner can become an easy, enjoyable routine your whole family will look forward to.

As the leading Boston nanny agency, we’re thrilled to help you cook up a plan for meals that will nourish and delight your whole household.

Meal Planning Tips from a Trusted Boston Nanny Agency

1. Plan once, shop once

2. Discover the joy of theme nights

3. Schedule a regular meal prep session

4. Double up & freeze

Meal Planning Tips from a Trusted Boston Nanny Agency

At ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, we know that busy Boston families have a lot to juggle. Amid school drop-off and pickup, work deadlines, and extracurricular activities, dinner can often fall to the bottom of your to-do list. And you know what that means: a last-minute dash to the supermarket, calling for takeout, or yet another trip to your family's favorite restaurant.

If you’re tired of staring into the fridge in search of inspiration, take heart! Just a little planning can help turn dinner prep into an easy and even enjoyable part of your routine. We hope these practical tips help you eat better and savor more quality time with your loved ones.

1) Plan once, shop once

Basing your grocery list on a meal plan means just one efficient trip to the supermarket, and fewer last-minute runs for forgotten ingredients and impulse buys.

Dedicate 20–30 minutes a week to mapping out breakfast, lunch, and dinner ideas. Jot everything down in a notebook or use a meal planning app, then build a grocery list to match your plan. Keep things simple by choosing meals that share ingredients, and don't forget those all-important snacks!

2) Discover the joy of theme nights

Children love the predictability of knowing what's for dinner. To keep things fun, we recommend giving each weeknight its own theme. Rotate your family’s favorite recipes for every theme to add variety, and adapt as needed to keep everyone happy.

Here are some of our favorite weekly theme nights:

• Make-Your-Own Monday: DIY poke bowls or salad bar

• Taco Tuesday: a family favorite that needs no explanation!

• World Cuisine Wednesday: a dish from a different country each week (a great way to get children to try new foods)

• Throwback Thursday: classic comfort foods like spaghetti and meatballs or mac and cheese

• Family Favorites Friday: take turns choosing what’s for dinner

3) Schedule a regular meal prep session

Set aside time each week to prepare ingredients for the week ahead. This way, you can whip meals up quickly and easily. Just follow these steps:

• Wash and chop vegetables

• Divide and marinate meat or plant-based proteins in meal-sized portions

• Soak or pre-cook grains like rice or quinoa

• Hard-boil eggs for quick breakfasts

• Portion out snacks into grab-and-go containers

4) Double up & freeze

Want a great way to build up your stash of homemade ‘ready meals’? Whenever you cook a freezer-friendly dish, double the recipe and freeze half in family-sized portions. On nights when you’re stretched for time, simply thaw and reheat! You can also freeze smaller portions of leftovers for quick, nutritious lunches.

Meal planning doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to work for your family. With a few simple strategies up your sleeve, you’ll save time, reduce your stress level, and bring more calm and joy to your evenings. Start small, stay flexible, and truly savor your family time!

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

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Finding quality childcare in Boston can be challenging. That’s exactly why many parents rely on trusted nanny agencies like ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ to simplify their search. By working with a Boston nanny agency, families gain access to a curated pool of exceptional candidates and enjoy expert support throughout the hiring process and beyond.

1. How Boston Parents Find the Best Childcare Using a Nanny Agency

   a. Define your needs

   b. Offer competitive compensation

   c. Leverage the benefits of a Boston nanny agency

   d. Ask the right questions

   e. Set clear expectations

How Boston Parents Find the Best Childcare Using a Nanny Agency

Boston parents lead fast-paced careers in a fast-paced city.  Faced with jam-packed schedules and long waitlists at daycare centers, more and more families are turning to nannies for consistent, personalized childcare.

But with competition for top-notch nannies reaching an all-time high, what can you do to ease the search process and boost your chances of success? Let's take a look!

a) Define your needs

The first step in finding a nanny is to define what your family actually needs. Are you looking for full-time help, part-time support, or a caregiver with specific skills and experience? Pinpointing your must-haves versus nice-to-haves at this stage lays a strong foundation for your search, saving time down the road.

b) Offer competitive compensation

In a city like Boston, great nannies are highly sought-after. Families who offer fair wages, benefits, and extra perks will naturally attract top-tier candidates. 

c) Leverage the benefits of a Boston nanny agency

One of the biggest advantages of working with a Boston nanny agency like ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ is our unrivalled access to an exclusive pool of highly qualified candidates. With less than 10% of applicants passing our rigorous screening process, you can be sure that every nanny we recommend has been thoroughly vetted for experience, skills, and compatibility with your family’s needs.

d) Ask the right questions

A good interview is your chance to observe and explore your compatibility with your chosen candidates. It’s essential to plan ahead and consider which questions you’ll ask. Open-ended, situational queries like “What’s your approach to screen time?” are a great way to spark real conversations and reveal a nanny’s instincts and values.

e) Set clear expectations

A lack of clarity is a huge stumbling block that can derail your relationship with your new nanny right from the start. Make sure to outline schedules, duties, communication preferences, and any household quirks. Getting everyone on the same page—from how snacks are handled, to how discipline is approached, to any other aspect of your family’s routines—helps build a strong, respectful working relationship.

If you're ready to find a nanny who fits seamlessly into your family life, ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ is here to help. Thanks to our highly selective screening process, expert guidance, and deep understanding of what Boston families need, we’ll connect you with the most qualified, trusted caregivers around. Let our fabulously talented team take the stress out of your search, leaving you free to enjoy the ultimate peace of mind.

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

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Parents choose to work with a Boston nanny agency because this option saves time, reduces stress, and connects them with thoroughly vetted and qualified caregivers. By providing expert guidance, safety checks, and personalized matching services, agencies offer families unparalleled convenience and peace of mind as they search for—and hire—an exceptional nanny. 

1. Why Families in Boston Are Choosing to Work with a Nanny Agency

   a. Trust

   b. Safety

   c. Convenience

   d. Expertise

   e. Support

Why Families in Boston Are Choosing to Work with a Nanny Agency

Bostonians with children know that the search for a trusted caregiver can be overwhelming. Between reviewing endless online profiles, tracking down references, and arranging time-consuming interviews, this process has all the ingredients to quickly become stressful.

That’s why more and more families in Boston are taking advantage of the thoughtful, hands-on approach offered by elite agencies such as ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝. Intrigued? Let’s explore why parents choose to partner with a trusted nanny agency!

a) Trust

Working with a Boston nanny agency is nothing like taking a chance on that stranger with a great online profile. Instead, you’ll collaborate with seasoned professionals who will take the time to personally review every candidate. A nanny agency will take care of all screening interviews, as well as reference and background checks, so you can rest assured your child(ren) will be in safe, experienced, and thoroughly vetted hands.  

b) Safety

Your child’s safety is non-negotiable. A reputable nanny agency like ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ will verify that every candidate you’re matched with is CPR-certified, legally eligible to work, and thoroughly screened for any red flags. Our intensive vetting process eliminates over 90% of candidates, leaving you with only Boston’s best nannies.

c) Convenience

When you hire a nanny with ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, our experienced team will do all the heavy lifting for you. We’ll sift through applications, conduct screening interviews, and narrow down the field to find the ideal fit for your family. 

d) Expertise

Our Boston-based team understands what makes a great nanny-family match and will guide you through every step, from identifying your needs to finalizing a contract that works for everyone. We’ll also assist with setting expectations about duties, hours, pay, and benefits to help ensure a long-term, successful placement.

e) Support

You can count on our expert help even after you’ve hired your nanny. We'll be available for questions, guidance, and backup support if your needs change or unexpected circumstances arise.

Choosing the right nanny is one of the most important decisions a family can make. You shouldn't have to make yours alone. A respected Boston nanny agency like ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ will offer the guidance, support, and expertise you need to find a caregiver who seamlessly blends into your family. From screening candidates to finalizing employment contracts and beyond, we’re here to make your hiring process smoother, safer, and completely stress-free.

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

●      If you enjoyed this article, you might also like ‘How Boston parents find the best childcare using a nanny agency’.

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●      If you’re a nanny looking for a new family to work with, you can apply to become a Sommet Nanny.

]]>Why Families in Boston Are Choosing to Work with a Nanny AgencyBostonLydia ThibodeauMon, 07 Apr 2025 16:14:37 +0000/blog-2-1/where-to-find-nanny-jobs-in-boston617017dcc030d141e38aaf3c:62debeed3b24493cfba66aaa:67f3f8864f5c1a3dd300f097

From local job boards to online recruitment sites, there are multiple avenues for you to explore as you search for a nanny position in Boston. Partnering with a reputable nanny agency offers a more streamlined approach, connecting you directly with families who will truly value your expertise.

1. What types of nanny jobs does Boston offer?

2. Where to find nanny jobs in Boston

3. How to find the best nanny jobs in Boston

1) What types of nanny jobs does Boston offer?

Are you a nanny looking to relocate to Boston? Or are you a Boston resident considering a new career path? This incredible city offers a variety of nanny jobs tailored to families’ diverse needs:

• Full-time nanny: a dedicated position in which you work 40+ hours a week, providing daily care, meal prep, and educational activities for children

• Part-time nanny: a flexible role for families needing occasional support like after-school care or weekend help

• Live-in nanny: a full-time nanny who lives in the family home and provides childcare during set hours; you’ll receive accommodation as part of your compensation

• Night nanny: helps parents with overnight care for newborns by handling night-time feedings and soothing

• Nanny housekeeper: a nanny who also assists with light household chores

• Temporary/Seasonal nanny: a short-term role, such as a summer nanny, for families who need childcare for a few weeks or months

2) Where to find nanny jobs in Boston

Nannies seeking employment in Boston can explore positions listed on local job boards and online recruitment sites. Partnering with a reputable nanny agency, though, creates a more streamlined job search, connecting you directly with families who’ll truly value your expertise.

Let's examine the pros and cons of various ways to find nanny jobs in Boston.

Job boards like Craigslist or Boston-specific forums often feature local nanny openings. Though these positions may be ideally located, these recruitment ads are often unclear and can lead you to waste time pursuing unsuitable jobs.

Online recruitment sites host extensive nanny listings in Boston. Searching through these to find positions that fit your requirements can be overwhelming and time-consuming.

Networking with your family, friends, and fellow childcare providers can help uncover job opportunities not advertised online. Informal word-of-mouth recruitment, however, can lead you to skip important safeguarding measures.

Working with an agency like ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ is often the most efficient option when you’re searching for a nanny job in Boston. Agencies specialize in matching highly qualified nannies with reputable families who are serious about hiring, saving you time and reducing your job search–related stress.

3) How to find the best nanny jobs in Boston

To find the best nanny jobs, define and spotlight your preferences, skills, and long-term goals. Determine the type of position you’re most interested in, whether it’s full-time, part-time, or something more niche. Take the initiative and reach out to agencies and families in need of a nanny with your up-to-date resume and references.

If you're unsure where to start, the team at ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ can help you find jobs that fit your parameters and personal qualities. Our matchmaking skills are pretty exceptional. Just ask our families—more than half of whom have hired the first nanny we introduced them to!

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

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●      If you’re a family interested in learning more about our nanny services, head over here.

●      If you’re a nanny looking for a new family to work with, you can apply to become a Sommet Nanny.

]]>Where to find nanny jobs in BostonBostonLydia ThibodeauMon, 07 Apr 2025 16:07:45 +0000/blog-2-1/types-of-nanny-jobs-in-boston617017dcc030d141e38aaf3c:62debeed3b24493cfba66aaa:67f3f5d61b5e5b257b69f595

Nanny jobs in Boston include full-time roles offering daily childcare, part-time positions with flexible hours, and live-in jobs providing round-the-clock support. For even more variety and flexibility, consider more niche options. You could be a nanny household-manager  who balances childcare and household tasks, a night nanny focused on overnight care, or part of a nanny share arrangement.

1. Types of nanny jobs in Boston

1. Full-time nannies

2. Part-time nannies

3. Live-in nannies

4. Nanny household manager

5. Night nannies

6. Nanny shares

2. How to choose the perfect nanny job in Boston

1) Types of nanny jobs in Boston

Looking for a nanny job in Boston? Whether you want a steady full-time position, flexible part-time hours, or a specialized role like night nannying, wonderful opportunities are out there! 

a) Full-time nannies

A full-time nanny provides dedicated, daily childcare, usually working 40+ hours a week on a set schedule. If you’re looking for a stable, rewarding career in which you can form a deep connection with children, this is an excellent choice. 

b) Part-time nannies

Part-time nannies work a flexible schedule to meet their employers’ needs. This could mean after-school help, a few hours during the day, or occasional shifts on weekends and during school breaks. This arrangement is perfect for students, freelancers, or anyone who prefers a lighter workload. While ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ don't typically place part-time nanny roles, we can certainly help find the right opportunity to suit your needs. 

c) Live-in nannies

Live-in nanny positions offer room and board in addition to a salary. You’ll have your own space but be available to provide full-time childcare during pre-arranged hours. This is a great option for nannies looking to relocate or trim their living expenses.

d) Nanny Household Manager

As well as childcare, a nanny household manager carries out household duties beyond what would normally be expected of a nanny. These positions are usually with older children who don't require constant supervision, giving nannies time to help maintain the family home.

e) Night nannies

Night nannies specialize in overnight care for newborns and young children, making sure they’re fed, comforted, and settled back to sleep. Most families hire a night nanny for a few weeks or months; in some cases, though, this can become a longer-term role. Night nannies are always in demand. If you have a knack for soothing babies and enjoy working independently, this could be the perfect career choice for you!

f) Nanny shares

Nanny share positions involve caring for children from two different families at the same time. These roles often offer higher pay due to the added responsibility required. If you’re great at managing multiple children and juggling commitments, nanny sharing can be a fun and financially rewarding option.

2) How to choose the perfect nanny job in Boston

Choosing the perfect nanny job in Boston depends on your experience, preferences, and lifestyle. Consider factors like the type of role, the age of the children, the family’s needs, and the hours you’re available to work. It’s important to embark on a career path that aligns with your skills and offers a healthy work-life balance. That way, you can bring your very best to the role every day.

At ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, we help prospective candidates explore their career options by discussing which types of nanny jobs might suit their expertise and lifestyle best. We understand that every nanny has unique skills and requirements. We’re here to match you with families who will value what you bring to the table. Whether you're looking for a flexible schedule, a long-term position, or a specialized care role, our team looks forward to pairing you with the perfect opportunity.

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

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]]>Types of nanny jobs in BostonBostonLydia ThibodeauMon, 07 Apr 2025 15:57:00 +0000/blog-2-1/summer-nanny-jobs-in-boston617017dcc030d141e38aaf3c:62debeed3b24493cfba66aaa:67f3f3ceec4e165a5a4a327c

Whether you're looking for full-time or part-time work, being a summer nanny gives you flexibility and the chance to create fun, educational experiences for kids. From trips to the ever-popular Museum of Science to enjoying the great outdoors on , summer nanny jobs in Boston allow you to get the most out of the season while helping families manage their childcare needs.

1. What is a summer nanny?

2. How to find summer nanny jobs in Boston

3. How to hire a summer nanny in Boston

1) What is a summer nanny?

Summer nannies are childcare professionals hired specifically for this season to care for children while school’s out. They work full-time or part-time to keep children entertained, engaged, and safe during their school break.

For families, a summer nanny offers a reliable and consistent solution to their needs, taking away the stress of arranging temporary childcare and ferrying youngsters from place to place. A summer nanny can organize structured activities and fun outings, making sure your children don't miss a moment of summertime fun. Hiring a summer nanny is like having your own personal camp counselor right at home!

A summer nanny job might appeal to candidates with flexible schedules who are looking for seasonal work. This role is ideal for recent graduates, teachers on summer break, or anyone with a background in childcare or early childhood education. Whether it’s a day at the , a trip to the , or a visit to , being a summer nanny is all about making those sunny days count.

2) How to find summer nanny jobs in Boston

You can find summer nanny openings in Boston on local job boards, social media groups, and online childcare recruitment sites. As with any nanny role, though, finding the perfect fit for the summer is easier and more successful with support from a reputable nanny agency like ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝.

When top-caliber nanny candidates approach us, we hear the same story time and again: finding the right nanny job can feel like searching for a needle in a Boston-sized haystack. That's where ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝â€™ team of specialists comes in. We’ll simplify the process by connecting you directly with suitable families in need of a summer nanny. 

Thanks to their expert guidance, you won’t have to spend time sifting through endless job listings. Instead, you can focus on what matters most: enjoying your summer in Boston and making a positive and lifelong impact on the children in your care.

3) How to hire a summer nanny in Boston

The key to a successful summer nanny partnership is finding a candidate who complements your family’s dynamic and can help keep your children entertained and engaged. Look for a nanny who is creative; energetic; and enthusiastic about outdoor activities, hands-on learning, and exploring Boston’s many kid-friendly attractions. 

When recruiting a summer nanny in Boston, start by clearly outlining your expectations. Think about this position’s working hours and responsibilities, as well as any preferred experience and special skills you’d like your nanny to have. Use this information to craft a job description and recruitment ad or enlist the services of a reputable nanny agency like ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ to do the work for you.

Whether you need someone to plan day trips, supervise playdates, or simply provide a safe and fun environment at home—or whether you’re that someone who can do all this and more!—the right summer nanny partnership can make your summer even sunnier.

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

●      If you enjoyed this article, you might also like ‘Where to find nanny jobs in Boston’.

●      If you’re a family interested in learning more about our nanny services, head over here.

●      If you’re a nanny looking for a new family to work with, you can apply to become a Sommet Nanny.

]]>Summer nanny jobs in BostonWorking with a nannyLydia ThibodeauTue, 14 Jan 2025 08:12:11 +0000/blog-2-1/how-much-is-a-live-in-nanny617017dcc030d141e38aaf3c:62debeed3b24493cfba66aaa:67861aca298c982631e067fd

Hiring a live-in nanny is an affordable form of childcare for families, particularly when you factor in the potential savings on additional costs such as after-school clubs, transportation, and household help.

1. What is a live-in nanny?

2. What does a live-in nanny do?

3. How much is a live-in nanny?

1) What is a live-in nanny?

A live-in nanny lives with the family they work for, providing professional childcare services and assisting with light household duties. The role normally comes with private living quarters for the nanny, and meals are often included as part of the employment contract.

This arrangement is ideal for families seeking consistent, personalized care for their children, but it is important to remember that a live-in nanny should not be expected to provide 24/7 childcare. Yes, having a live-in nanny can give additional flexibility, but parents need to respect their employee's right to undisturbed time off. This can be particularly tricky with children who struggle to understand why their favorite nanny is not constantly available for them to play with!

2) What does a live-in nanny do?

A live-in nanny performs all the same tasks as a live-out nanny. They will care for and nurture the children, perform light household duties directly related to childcare, and transport the children to activities and playdates.

The main difference is that the working hours of a live-in nanny can be arranged to suit the needs of the family. For example, a nanny traveling to their workplace every day will normally work a fixed shift, such as 8.30 am to 6 pm. A live-in nanny could work split shifts or flexible hours to facilitate childcare cover on evenings or weekends.

3) How much is a live-in nanny?

Some employers mistakenly assume that a live-in nanny should be cheaper than a live-out nanny, but this isn't always the case. The salary for any type of full-time nanny tends to fall into a similar range, whether they live on-site or travel into work each day. But why is this, when benefits such as accommodation and meals are provided?

While it is true that your nanny's living expenses may be lower if they live-in, residing with an employer is not necessarily regarded as a perk, even if you are the most wonderful family in the world! Live-in nannies often experience a challenging work-life balance and lack of personal space, and it would be unfair to expect them to accept a lower salary than their live-out counterparts.

If you're considering hiring a live-in nanny, partnering with a reputable nanny agency such as ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ gives reassurance that you are paying a fair and competitive salary. Live-in nannies working with our agency are typically paid $60-80k per annum based on a 40-hour work week, depending on location:

• Boston live-in nanny average rate: $30-$40 per hour

• Chicago live-in nanny average rate: $28-$35 per hour

• Washington live-in nanny average rate: $35-$45 per hour

• New York live-in nanny average rate: $35-$45 per hour

As every situation is different, we help each family decide on a competitive compensation package to offer potential candidates, including benefits such as paid time off and healthcare.

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

●      If you enjoyed this article, you might also like 'What does a nanny do?'

●      If you’re a family interested in learning more about our nanny services, head over here.

●      If you’re a nanny looking for a new family to work with, you can apply to become a Sommet Nanny.

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A nanny is a trained and experienced professional who provides personalized care for children in a family’s home. They create a safe environment that nurtures the child's growth and development and may assist with light child-related household duties.

1. What is a nanny?

2. What do nannies do?

3. What is the difference between a nanny and a babysitter?

1) What is a nanny?

A nanny is a professional caregiver who provides consistent childcare within the family home. They become an integral part of the household and often form long-term relationships with the children they care for. A nanny's schedule is tailored to the family's requirements and their primary focus is meeting the child’s physical, emotional, and developmental needs.

The image of a nanny has changed considerably over the decades. When you hear the word 'nanny', do you picture a strict Victorian-style disciplinarian or a zany Mary Poppins figure who fills life with fun and wonder? In reality, the role of a modern nanny is that of a highly skilled professional who takes pride in the development of children under their care.

The modern nanny collaborates closely with families to ensure a holistic approach to the child’s upbringing that is tailored to their personality and growth stage. This role can extend to teaching life skills, assisting with homework, and facilitating creative experiences and social interactions.

2) What do nannies do?

During their working hours, a nanny is responsible for supervising, nurturing, and engaging children in activities that support their growth and development.  This primarily takes place in the family home, but can also include trips to educational and social engagements. With prior agreement, some nannies assist with light household duties related to the children.

The key to a successful working relationship with a nanny is to set clear expectations about their role in your family's daily life. A nanny may complete some or all of the following tasks during their working day, depending on their job description:

• Manage and supervise the child's daily routine, including meals, playtime, and naps.

• Prepare healthy meals and snacks.

• Plan and organize activities that support the child's development.

• Assist with homework and other educational tasks.

• Perform light housekeeping duties, such as tidying play areas.

• Drive children to extracurricular activities, school, or appointments.

3) What is the difference between a nanny and a babysitter?

Both nannies and babysitters provide childcare, but babysitters are typically hired to supervise children for short periods while their parents are absent. Nannies, on the other hand, are employed on a long-term basis and are tasked with overseeing and engaging children in activities that promote their health and well-being.

Interestingly, an ad hoc babysitter will often charge a higher hourly rate than a nanny in regular employment. Nannies provided through a high-caliber agency such as ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ are also highly experienced and supported by specialized training or certifications, making them a cost-effective, safe, and reliable solution to your childcare needs.

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

●      If you enjoyed this article, you might also like ‘How to find a nanny’.

●      If you’re a family interested in learning more about our nanny services, head over here.

●      If you’re a nanny looking for a new family to work with, you can apply to become a Sommet Nanny.

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A nanny is responsible for providing personalized care to children in their family environment. Nannies supervise, nurture, and engage children in activities that support their growth and development. Additionally, they may assist with child-related household tasks, including meal preparation, light cleaning, and transportation.

1. What is a nanny?

2. What does a nanny do: core responsibilities

3. What does a nanny do: additional duties

4. How can a nanny benefit your family?

1. Supporting your family’s routine

2. Communicating and collaborating with you

3. Fostering holistic child development

5. What not to expect from a nanny

1) What is a nanny?

A nanny works directly with a family to care for children during their normal daily activities. In addition to childcare, nannies are often responsible for wide-ranging duties, including light housekeeping, depending on their employers’ requirements.

There are several types of nannies, each offering different levels of care based on a given family’s needs:

• Full-time nanny: typically works 35-50 hours a week and is responsible for the day-to-day care of children, including supervision, meals, and activities

• Part-time nanny: works fewer hours per week, often after school or on weekends when families need extra support

• Live-in nanny: resides in the family home and may have a carefully negotiated work schedule that requires availability during evenings or overnight; a good option for families seeking round-the-clock support

2) What does a nanny do: Core responsibilities

A nanny’s primary role is to supervise and care for children. This includes overseeing their daily routines; ensuring their safety; and being present during play, meals, naps, and other activities. A nanny is a reliable, attentive, and consistent adult figure for children, providing them with the support they need throughout the day.

In this role, nannies are often responsible for preparing children’s healthy meals and snacks. They plan and organize age-appropriate activities that stimulate little ones’ intellectual, emotional, and physical growth. Nannies assist with homework and other learning activities as well.

3) What does a nanny do: additional duties

While childcare is their main responsibility, nannies often take on additional tasks that help households run smoothly. These extra duties must be mutually agreed upon! Nannies are not housekeepers, and their top priority should always be the safety and well-being of the children.

Many help with light housekeeping chores, such as tidying up play areas, doing the children’s laundry, and keeping the kitchen clean after meals. These tasks typically focus on ensuring neat and organized spaces for children; nannies are not generally expected to clean communal family areas.

Nannies may also help with tasks like grocery shopping; picking up dry cleaning; and driving children to extracurricular activities, doctor’s appointments, or school. Again, these extra duties must be mutually agreed upon to avoid potential conflicts and the risk of nanny burnout.

4) How can a nanny benefit your family?

Here at ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, we firmly believe that a first-class nanny is more than just a full-time babysitter! Hiring a nanny can be greatly beneficial to your family, providing a high level of flexibility, personalized childcare, and valuable help with household responsibilities.

a) Supporting your family’s routine

Juggling competing responsibilities at work and at home can cause major stress for families. A nanny can help reduce yours by providing consistent and dedicated childcare, supporting your family’s daily routine, and helping to establish a consistent schedule for your children. This can be especially beneficial for families with busy work schedules. Thanks to your nanny, you can rest assured that your children’s needs will be met in a timely and organized manner.

b) Communicating and collaborating with you

A key reason for choosing a nanny over other childcare options is the close teamwork you’ll enjoy with yours. Nannies typically collaborate with parents to make sure everyone is on the same page regarding children’s needs, routines, and any special considerations. Regular communication—such as daily or weekly check-ins—allows for feedback and updates on your children’s progress, health, and behavioral issues.

c) Fostering holistic child development

Beyond meeting your children’s basic needs, nannies can actively engage them in activities that promote their physical, social, emotional, and cognitive growth. A nanny’s consistent presence will foster a well-rounded, supportive environment that contributes to your child's holistic development.

• Physical development: Nannies ensure children get enough physical activity by taking them to parks, playing games, or organizing outdoor activities. This helps children develop motor skills along with a healthy lifestyle.

• Social and emotional development: By providing a safe and nurturing environment, nannies can encourage positive behavior, teach conflict resolution, and lend a sympathetic ear when children need emotional support.

• Cognitive development: Professional nannies engage children in tailored educational activities that stimulate intellectual growth and encourage a love of learning.

5) What not to expect from a nanny

Unfortunately, unclear expectations can cause the nanny-parent working relationship to break down. Keep in mind that your nanny’s primary responsibility is to provide superior childcare. Any other tasks should be mutually agreed upon as part of your employment contract.

Here’s what you should not expect from your nanny.

• Housekeeping duties: Major cleaning tasks like deep cleaning the entire house, organizing closets, or handling heavy-duty chores typically aren’t in a nanny’s job description.

• Advanced medical care: A reputable nanny will be trained in CPR and first aid. Don’t, however, expect yours to make decisions regarding your child’s day-to-day healthcare. Have a plan in place for medical care. In case of an emergency, make sure your nanny knows about this plan and how to contact emergency services.

• Unpaid overtime: The odd extra hour now and then can soon add up and create feelings of ill will between you and your nanny. Set clearly defined working hours and boundaries to prevent burnout and ensure that your family and nanny maintain a healthy work-life balance.

• Managing finances: Nannies are not responsible for handling family finances, managing budgets, or making financial decisions for the household.

• Disciplinary actions: Nannies help promote positive behavior and encourage good habits, but major disciplinary decisions should be made by you, the parents.

So, what does a nanny do? To sum it all up, a nanny plays a crucial role in providing personalized, one-on-one care for children in their family home. Nannies take on a variety of tasks, from supervising and nurturing children to assisting with household duties and supporting child development. They also foster open communication with parents to meet the family’s needs and maintain routines.

At ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, we are committed to matching families with experienced, reliable nannies who provide excellent childcare while creating a balanced and nurturing environment. If you're looking for a professional nanny who aligns with your family's needs, we’d be delighted to help you find your perfect fit.

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

●      If you enjoyed this article, you might also like 'How to hire a nanny'.

●      If you’re a family interested in learning more about our nanny services, head over here.

●      If you’re a nanny looking for a new family to work with, you can apply to become a Sommet Nanny.

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To find a nanny, start by defining your family’s needs and creating a clear job description outlining the skills and qualifications you’re seeking.

1. How do I find the perfect nanny?

2. Where's the best place to find a nanny?

3. How to find a nanny: Step-by-step guide

1. Create a job description

2. Post your nanny job

3. Screen candidates

4. Conduct interviews

5. Check references & run background checks

1. How do I find the perfect nanny?

The perfect nanny is someone who aligns with your family’s values, meets your childcare needs, and builds a genuine connection with your children.

They should be experienced, dependable, and have a personality that complements your household. Families in search of their perfect nanny should conduct thorough interviews and carefully check references and background information.

With years of experience in placing nannies with families, here at ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ we firmly believe that the key to success in finding the perfect nanny is in the screening and selection process. Over 90% of applicants to our agency are eliminated as part of the vetting and recruitment process, and our matching service has a success rate of over 95%. Not quite perfect, but we're immensely proud of how close we are!

2. Where's the best place to find a nanny?

There are several ways to search for a nanny, and the best method for your family depends on how much time you can dedicate to the search and how confident you feel in assessing a candidate’s qualifications:

• Personal networks

  • Many families find nannies through recommendations from their personal networks, with experienced and highly sought-after nannies being snapped up as soon as they become available. While this method can yield trustworthy results, it may limit your candidate pool.

• Online job boards

  • Online platforms allow families to post nanny vacancies and review applications. These give access to vast numbers of potential nannies but require a significant time investment in screening and vetting candidates.

• Nanny agencies

  • Nanny agencies can offer the most thorough and hassle-free approach to finding a nanny. Look for an agency that matches families with pre-vetted candidates, saving you time and ensuring high-quality results.

3. How to find a nanny: Step-by-step guide

If you're new to the process of finding a nanny, follow our step-by-step guide for guaranteed success!

a) Create a job description

A well-crafted nanny job description ensures potential candidates understand your expectations and helps attract the right match. This is also a great opportunity for you to consider your family's needs and the benefits a nanny could bring.

A strong nanny job description typically includes detailed information about the following areas:

• Schedule

• Duties

• Essential qualifications and prior experience

• Desired traits and skills

• Salary range and benefits

Ironing out these details at the start will help you find candidates who are aligned with your expectations, and will make the screening and interviewing process much smoother.

b) Post your nanny job

When finding a nanny, parents have two main options: posting their job on reputable nanny websites or working with a specialized nanny agency. Posting on job boards gives access to a broad range of candidates, but it requires more time for reviewing applications and conducting background checks. Parents will need to manage the hiring process from start to finish, including application screening, background checks, and finalizing employment contracts.

Alternatively, working with a nanny agency can simplify the process significantly. Agencies have access to pre-vetted candidates that are matched to suitable families, saving you the effort of sorting through numerous applications. They handle much of the legwork, including screenings and background checks, allowing you to focus on finding the best match for your family.

c) Screen candidates

When screening nanny applications, focus on candidates who meet the specific requirements you outlined in your job description. Carefully assess each resume, paying attention to experience, skills, and qualifications to create a shortlist of candidates who could be the perfect fit for your family.

Screening candidates can be a time-consuming task, so it is helpful to have a clear set of criteria to guide your choices. Keep in mind that experienced nannies are in high demand, so don’t wait too long to reach out to promising candidates. At ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, we streamline the process by pre-screening candidates based on your needs, offering one carefully selected resume at a time to simplify your decision-making.

d) Conduct interviews

Interviews are a key opportunity to assess whether a nanny candidate is the right fit for your family. It is a good idea to begin with a phone or Zoom interview to cover basic details, followed by an in-person meeting if the candidate seems promising.

During the interview, focus on the candidate's experience, childcare philosophy, and approach to the responsibilities outlined in your job description. Pay attention to their communication style, enthusiasm, and understanding of your family's needs.

To help parents during the interview process, we provide a mix of open-ended and scenario-based questions to gauge the candidate's responses. For example, parents may ask the candidate about their inspiration for working with children or how they'd handle children of varying age groups.

e) Check references & run background checks

Even if you're convinced you've found the perfect nanny, it is crucial to conduct thorough background checks to ensure the candidate’s qualifications and trustworthiness. When entrusting someone with the care of your children the following key details must be verified:

• Reference check and validation

• Social media screen

• All 50-state background screening

• Sexual misconduct record check

• Department of Motor Vehicle (DMV) driving record check

• Social Security verification

• Residency history search

• Infant/child CPR and First Aid certification verification

At ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, we conduct this rigorous vetting process for every candidate before they are matched with a potential family, so you can confidently trust that every nanny you interview is suitably qualified and of the highest caliber.

Paying attention to every detail is the key to finding the perfect nanny, enabling families to form lasting and meaningful working relationships with a professional childcare provider. So, if you're interested in the benefits that a top-class nanny can bring to your family, don't hesitate to contact us today!

While you can search for a nanny through online job boards, working with a professional agency like ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝ ensures a stress-free process with access to thoroughly vetted candidates.

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Welcome to ĚÇĐÄvlog´ŤĂ˝, a nanny agency with presence in Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, New York, and nationwide. We help busy families find dedicated and caring college-educated nannies.

●      If you enjoyed this article, you might also like 'How to hire a nanny'.

●      If you’re a family interested in learning more about our nanny services, head over here.

●      If you’re a nanny looking for a new family to work with, you can apply to become a Sommet Nanny.

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